PureInsight | February 29, 2016
[PureInsight.org] I study the Fa and cultivate with my two kids. Through following the principles of "Truthfulness, Compassion, Forbearance" in their daily lives, they are growing up with happiness and good health. I also tell them a lot of stories from the Minghui and Zhengjian websites.
Over the weekend, my daughters were playing together after waking up early. When I woke my husband for breakfast, he shouted at them for being careless and making a mess everywhere. I reminded my husband to let the kids feel comfortable at breakfast, rather than aggrieved. He became angry with me, saying that it was all because I didn’t know how to raise them. I tried to calm him down and have breakfast together, but he kept blaming everything on the kids and me, until eventually, I couldn’t hold it in and started to fight with him.
I felt so aggrieved, because I had to go to work and take care of two kids every day without his help, because he worked until late each day. During the weekend, I had to wake him up a couple of times for breakfast. But he never showed any appreciation and had instead upset me. I felt aggrieved. Then my daughter stopped our fight by saying, “Mom, Master told us to cultivate our speech!” I instantly realized that my husband’s behavior was helping us to cultivate and improve. Why shouldn’t I cherish this opportunity? I then sat there quietly without arguing; I felt remorseful. The words “Master told us to cultivate our speech” echoed in my ears over and over again.
Translated from http://www.zhengjian.org/node/150567